Regina Jackson

First things first here is that I’m starring this at five because I think it’s BS that the one-star review here is by someone who literally created an LT profile just to give this book a bad review (it’s the only book in their library), so I’m trying to get the average back up. So just putting it out there that I’m not squeeing (my five-star definition) this as it’s a pretty rough listen basically getting told you’re a POS for six hours, but it’s a very important one for where we as white women are in the world right now.

The way I took in their words was to acknowledge the racism in white women that they’re talking about and at minimum do better in myself by recognizing it, and at a next level deal with other white women pulling crap too. Just like rape culture can only be stopped when men actually stop men from raping women, white women have to deal with white women and not expect women of color to have to put up with this bull.

Their dinner concept fascinates me because I wanted to hear if there was ever a “successful” one that didn’t devolve into white women spewing at them, but it sounded like that’s how they all went which is horribly hilariously awkward. They’re very big on the “all white women” thing which I don’t deny, but their dinners were a very specific demographic of white women (it sounds like they’re based in Denver, so I know exactly who these women are—possibly literally—since I dealt with many and likely helped educate their children in my seven years there) who can pay for them.

Anyway if you’re a white woman, you just have to get through the stereotype aspect (I can see their genius though in lumping us together because historically that’s what we as white women have always done to “other” everyone too) and read this book because even if you don’t see yourself anywhere in their words (you do though…), you need to hear them and get to a place where you’re working toward antiracism rather than upholding white supremacy.… (altro)

I read a lot of anti-racism books and I learn something from every one of them. I’ll never know it all and accepting that is important when doing anti-racism work. I learned a lot from this book. I especially appreciated the section of this book about white feminism and how it is actually holding up white supremacy. That is one topic that I didn’t know much about. There are also sections on micro aggressions, schools, color-blindness and more.

I originally checked this book out from the library but I liked it so much I bought a copy. I know it’s one that I’ll read again and again, taking in more information each time.

Highly, highly recommended for all white women. (If the title makes you uncomfortable, you need to read it for sure.)… (altro)

Deeply problematic and dangerous. In my view, their work does nothing to advance anti-racism work, is a one-sided argument and uses bullying tactics. I watched their documentary "Deconstructing Karen", followed the authors on social media, bought multiple copies of the book and started to read it but will not finish.

1. It's premise seems to be based on the false assumption that we can judge women by their skin colour (lumping everyone who appears white into the same group);
2. They seem to assert that all women who appear white by virtue of their skin colour uphold racism and white supremacy. Jewish women and others are perceived as white so such an assertion would seem to me to beyond pale;
3. I don't think the authors are interested in open dialogue, having difficult conversations or taking any feedback to their work under consideration. How can any cause be advanced when female voices are scolded and silenced?

In my view, this book is white female bashing at it's worst. All women living in a patriarchal society are marginalized. I believe that when one group of women takes open fire upon another group of women it is damaging.… (altro)