Read it alone (like me), with a girlfriend (again like me), or lover (and once again like me) and you just might learn something fascinating to try out later on. I found this book to be an interesting read although I do have to admit that some things that were considered new and innovative weren't quite that out of the ordinaryy; or maybe it's just me ;-), so I was a little disappointed not to have many new things to try out when the time comes. Overall, I'd recommend this book to other women who are still trying to find their more sensual side or those that are looking for more excitement in the bedroom (or out...lol). ( )