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Sto caricando le informazioni... Avortée: Une histoire intime de l'IVG (2022)di Pauline Harmange
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In this timely essay, Pauline Harmange provides an intimate, detailed account of her abortion. Reminiscent of Annie Ernaux's Happening, Abortion is nuanced, complex, honest, and precise. Harmange gives voice to the emotions, reflections, and contradictions that someone could experience when they choose to terminate a pregnancy. At a time in which women's reproductive rights are being called into question around the world, Abortion is a clarion call, a powerful personal testimony, and a resolutely political vision -- to restore power to our experiences, all our experiences, by sharing them, and to transform society for the better. Non sono state trovate descrizioni di biblioteche |
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I would love to quote some of the more salient passages in the book but I reviewed an Advanced Reading Copy, so I can’t quote until the book is officially published in May 2023.
The author, a citizen of France, makes a point of stating that her abortion made total sense as her partner and she wanted children at some point in the undetermined future but that they were not financially stable enough nor were they ready from a relationship point of view. Isn’t that what the “planning” in family planning means? But she was one of the very small percentage of women that get pregnant on the form of birth control she was on. There was never really a debate as to what they needed to do as they weren’t even sure they could feed themselves. But all those things didn’t make the experience any easier for her physically and emotionally. Even in egalitarian countries like France with progressive laws about women’s reproductive health, there is still a taboo and shame involved in having abortions and especially in talking about them. That prevents healing from this event that 1 in 4 women go through before they are 45, whether they are open about it or not, whether it was a legal procedure or not. The author believes we need community that breaks through that reticence through connection.
Another important point she makes is that people without wombs need to get out of the way. Definitely people without wombs shouldn’t be making the legislative decisions about the reproductive rights of people with wombs (I like to say “womban/womben” = womb + human/humans!). And unless they are partnered with the person that is pregnant in some meaningful way, they deserve no say in the pregnant person’s right to choose abortion. She’s much more nuanced in her analysis of the issues and of her own experience than I am in my writing. If you are interested in this topic from whatever angle, you should definitely add this book to your reading list.
J'ai avorté et je vais bien merci certainly applies to my experience with abortion 40 years ago. I’ve always loved kids and was a regular babysitter in the squadrons I grew up in as a Navy brat. But when a casual sex partner (aka expected one-night stand) became pregnant while I was still getting my undergraduate degree in Engineering, abortion was my personal preference in accordance with the nascent and nebulous family plan I had in my head. You know, get my degree, get a good job, find the dream partner, then have my baby girl…But that plan was a non-womb-having partner’s plan. So despite my preference, I talked through all the options they were considering; all but abortion having the potential to seriously disrupt both of our education plans and entire lives, probably very negatively, and probably forever. I was relieved that she also decided fairly quickly that an abortion was the best for her life too. Although my memory of even tumultuous events is sketchy four decades on, we were lucky that abortion was legal, safely available in a local (Planned Parenthood?) clinic even in Salt Lake City. We went together, and since I was the less starving out-of-state student, I paid. We checked in a couple of times with each other in the following weeks and then went our separate ways and about our lives, like we would have after the first night if biology didn’t interrupt.
I obviously don’t know if she looks back and is fine, and reading Harmange’s book makes me think there were probably a lot of thoughts and feelings and physical effects in her experience of the same event that I was not privy to because of my casual sex partner status. But I hope she also looks back with no regret and is fine, thank you. And has gone on to have children if that’s what she was into.
I went on to get my three degrees, get my job, fall in love, have another accidental pregnancy too early in that loving relationship that resulted in my wonderful daughter, and later a son as well. Both of whom I cherish. Because while it wasn’t perfect, it was (mostly) planned and doable in the way I envisioned having my kids. And having family planning and reproductive freedom that includes abortion allowed that. Thank you to all those who fought, and continue to fight, for this right. Thank you Pauline Harmange for writing this book. And dudes, there is no room for you in the womb.
1J'ai avorté et je vais bien merci, edited by La Ville Brûle in 2012. [Out of print in France and probably never translated into English]