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I appreciated the authors insights and the break down by age with practical application. ( )

Some good ideas and advice, but some of it was silly, and a lot of the discussions seemed relevant to both boys and girls, not specific to boys. ( )

This book is fine- it does have some good advice but from what I've read, the majority of it applies equally to parenting girls or boys. I will pick it up again when my sons are older to see if it is more helpful at that time. ( )

"Wild Things" is a fabulous manual for rearing boys. Authors James and Thomas first explain the fives stages of a boy's development, and then detail how parents can help their sons grown through these stages to become strong, confident, capable men. Each section is replete with examples of how a boy may act in each stage as well as with suggestions for helping deal with some of the issues that may arise. The authors do not shy away from the tougher issues of pornography, drugs, homosexuality, depression, learning disabilities, and other issues that may arise during the growing up years. They offer both good advice and practical tips for dealing with each issue.

Of particular importance, they deal with the necessity of teaching boys to appropriately identify and express their emotions, as well as ensuring that teachings and reassurance of the parent's committed love for the boy reaches the child's heart. They offer specific insights into the crucial relationships between a boy and his mother and between a boy and his father, as well as strategies for maximizing and strengthening each relationship.

"Wild Things" celebrates all that makes boys special and unique. It presents adults with insights into what motivates and moves boys, and it provides practical, well-researched advice for helping boys grow into strong, stable, capable men. ( )