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"A scathing, deeply-researched foray into the invisible, uncompensated work women perform every day "Emotional labor." The term might sound familiar. . .but what does it mean exactly? Initially used to describe the unnamed yet crucial labor flight attendants did to make guests feel welcomed and safe, the phrase has burst into the national lexicon in recent years. The examples, whispered among friends and posted online, are endless. A woman is tasked with organizing family functions, even without volunteering. A stranger insists you "smile more," even as you navigate a high stress environment or grating commute. Emotional labor is essential to our society and economy, but it's so often invisible. Many are asked to perform exhausting, draining work at no extra cost. In this groundbreaking, journalistic deep dive, Rose Hackman traces the history of the term and exposes common manifestations of the phenomenon. She describes the many ways women and girls are forced to edit the expressions of their emotions to accommodate and elevate the emotions of others. But Hackman doesn't simply diagnose a problem-she empowers us to combat patriarchy and forge pathways for radical evolution, justice, and change. The 2023 must-have for every reader"-- Non sono state trovate descrizioni di biblioteche |
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What is emotional labor? Rose Hackman defines it as “the work it takes to put other people's feelings first, identifying or anticipating other people emotions, adapting yours in consequence, and then managing to positively affect other people's emotions.” This is work that is typically done on a much higher rate by women (people who were raised as women and people who identify as women). Most people know this and it's often explained away by saying that women have a higher capacity for empathy and care than non-women. This book begs to differ and presents many facts (backed up with studies, statistics, a plethora of interviews, and the author's lived experience) to explain that fixed gender traits have been exceedingly exaggerated. We're not born with brains that are static, but instead they are formed by what we experience throughout our lives and respond to social attitudes and expectations.
Women are compelled to not only provide emotional labor to their spouses, children, and other family members, but also in their community and employment. Women who don't do this are seen as harsh or mean, while men who perform these roles are often seen as weak and overly sensitive. This is something that effects all genders, but women the most. It prevents them from getting promotions or fair pay at work and forces them to do free labor at home and in extra circular activities. As a society we pay for daycare, nannies, and elder care, but offer no financial reward for people who provide these services to their loved ones.
Hackman is a journalist, has a very easy to read style, and—as mentioned above—backs up what she is saying with irrefutable evidence. It's not a happy read, in fact it doesn't provide the reader with hope that things are getting better. She points out that in general, men are more narcissistic. The gap is shrinking, but not because men are becoming less narcissistic; because women are “adapting” and becoming more so.
I had only one beef with Emotional Labor. Throughout the book Hackman brings up capitalism as one of, if not the, main structures in place preventing meaningful change, which I completely agree with. Unfortunately, she proposes a sort of reformed capitalism as a solution. In this anarchists opinion we can't have any kind of real fairness or equality or even be allowed to be fully human under capitalism. Other than that the book was perfect and I think you should read it. ( )