I admire the author's confidence in writing this book, and her gutsy use of her fame to write and sell a book, but there was little in it for me. Of course I am not interested in dating and live a much different lifestyle than the author, so the insights were not useful for me. Good luck to her. ( )

Oh this book has the best intentions...but it is very, very bland. And full of trite, glaringly obvious observations. I appreciate Ms. Schefft's effort, but really. ( )

Great insights. Helps you see being single in a different way. ( )

Very dull, not funny, entertaining or even inspiring, mentions The Bachelor/Bachelorette too much ( )

I picked this book up more out of curiosity than anything else (I didn't even watch The Bachelor or The Bachelorette when Jen Schefft was on). It was enjoyable enough - a good read for young women who want to feel good about not dating a bunch of losers or jerks just to "have a man." It's a positive message coming from someone with lots of experience in that department: the still single, over-thirty Schefft. ( )