I was skeptical of the illustration style but I came around to finding it profound - no change in facial expressions during fraught conversations implies things about how we see ourselves and who we are more holistically, maybe? And the way faces get reused - one I noticed especially was the upper east side "author" whose face gets reused a few times for bit characters, including an older white woman who asks weird questions at a book signing. Something about the way we play bit parts in other people's lives and remind them of someone else, and also the universality and specificity of human experiences. ( )

I read the original Buzzfeed piece that inspired this a while back, and I'm very glad to find the longer, graphic novel memoir is just as good.

As someone who also was the only one of X background growing up in a western town, and who will have mixed race kids I found this really resonant. The art style is sparse, but that draws more attention to the dialogue/text between Mira and the people in her life. Colorism in both the Indian community and America's perception of who is 'really from here' are a repeating motif (that unfortunately just... always exists IRL).

This is also going to be one of those books I recommend to white folks who might not've had the realization that their experience isn't the universal one and that for some Americans, getting questioned about the spaces we occupy is a 'normal' occurrence, or that very unsatisfactory yet unsurprising "I told you so" re: the dread from election night 2016's results. ( )

Listening to Jacob speak about what it's like to do something you don't know how to do, that no one has asked you to do, and that some people don't even what you to do—I had to get a copy of this book.

Jacob unfolds her memoir in the style of a graphic novel that she illustrated herself. The work is by turns brilliant, surprising, funny, cringe-y, heart-rending and always oh so honest. The folds of the story shift from Jacob's adult-parent-professional self to her child, adolescent, and then young adult self as she deftly conjures emotions, people, and experiences with short dialog-rich tableaus from her life.

As a reader I became an intimate witness to how it feels for this writer, an american-born South-Asian woman, to move through US culture before the Obama years, during that time and into what followed.

Highly recommend. ( )

I don't' find the format of comic (if that is what this was, or maybe I have missed the point) to be great for this work. For me it would have worked much better just in prose form. ( )

It’s funny (weird) but I kinda believe that books find you when you need them. And this is a book I needed to read now as I’m watching the DNC convention and feeling super cynical and jaded

At its heart, Mira Jacob’s memoir is a conversation with her son Z. Though the mixed media graphic novel she poignantly describes her life from childhood through Trump’s election.

My only hiccup with the book is that it isn’t chronological so I got tripped up at times, but that’s always an issue when I’m engrossed in a book as it pulls me back out to figure out where we jumped from/to. ( )