I found it so boring, I couldn't connect with Diamond at all, he was obnoxious, I get his pessimism but holy shit was it irritating, the guy keeps repeating how he doesn't believe that being cured has anything to do with your attitude and willingness to fight but he had so little of that in him that it doesn't surprise me he was so against that idea.

The book repeats itself a lot and is full of unrelated and uninteresting stuff, we hear very little about the children for example but too much about some friends, and none of that helps us really get to know Diamond better, we end the book knowing so little about his life before cancer. Its just a lot of whining.

I do feel I need to explain a bit more, of course this is Diamond's story and I can't criticize what he felt, it was what it was, and I know that dealing with illness (though I never had cancer but I was close to dying) is tiresome, depressing, you feel so hopeless, but there are also moments of light, when you need to stand up and keep going, create new hope again and again, and through the book it just felt like he had given up the moment they told him he had cancer.

When you are desperate you try anything, all that stupid homeopathic shit, why not give it a try? The alternative therapies didn't do shit for me but I'll be damned if I didn't try it, that's what you do.

I hate to think that after reading this book some people that have never been through illness will think this is how it goes, it doesn't, I'm sorry that Diamond couldn't find the strength and it's true that willpower alone won't cure anything but giving up won't either.

Don't be swayed by his "rationality", pessimism isn't rational. ( )

Having seen the moving TV documentary many years ago I was prompted to pick up this book to read when I saw it in a library sale. Despite the inevitable expected sadness at the end this book is so well written as I knew it would be. The writer was such a talented and memorable man. The book is brutally honest about head and neck cancer and it's treatment. Having worked at the Royal Marsden, for me he has captured
the essence of the place and made me smile remembering good memories of the time. A book to be recommended.

honest about cancer and it's treatment. ( )

This is a very powerful and brutally honest account of one man's cancer. It doesn't really *do* anything, it's not there to tell you how to deal with a diagnosis, to recommend treatments or to discuss philosophy, it's just about how John Diamond (broadcaster, columnist and husband of Nigella Lawson) dealt with his cancer. I read the first 2/3 in one afternoon but then found it very difficult to pick up to finish the final 1/3 which featured some fairly graphic descriptions of surgery and post-op issues. That section was also less interesting and more depressing to me as it just became about getting through each day, it was all about the condition rather than about living and it becomes much harder to form a connection. A fascinating book and a remarkable insight. ( )

John Diamond was a Journalist who wrote an amusing colum about his family life in the Sunday Times. Whilst he was in his early 40s he was diagnosed with cancer. He carried on writting his colum about the relatity of life with cancer. It's a brave witty account of the treatment, even though he claims to be a 'coward' because he has the fears everyone faces. I know one Consultant who reccomends it to his juniors to find out what 'cancer's actually like'. ( )

This is a funny and moving account of a man's fight with cancer (which he subsequently lost). John Diamond was a (London) Times journalist who wrote weekly columns covering his battle. I found the book sad but uplifting (as a lot of these books do, they end up portraying endurance and - despite the title - courage, in a way which manages to avoid mawkishness). ( )