Please help-Looking for a mafia romance

I don’t remember if this book is a mafia romance or what but i remember the female lead being called a donna( a head female of a mafia). The only thing I remember from this book is that the male lead had a meeting with his associates in his club which was a stripper club when one of his girl came and sat on his lap and he didn’t remove her because he didn’t want to look like he had a weakness because he was with someone but when the female lead got to the club and saw the her man had another woman on his lap she was angry but didn’t show it. She just walked up to them and just sat there then she told the girl to get off her mans lap and then started flirting and making the stripper want her right there in front of her Man and his associates.

They was another scene where they discover that someone in their mafia family wanted to kill the male lead then it turned out it was his aunt or some woman whose close to him who wanted her secret son to run the mafia and not the male lead.

I don’t know the title of the book you’re looking for, however I am ALSO looking for a mafia/vory/bratva romance.

It’s actually a series of novels that center on arranged marriages between organized crime families.

One that I recall: the h lives in a compound with her family who are cruel to her; she loves to cook and learned from an old woman who also lives there, but everyone else there treats her terribly.

The H, who is arranged to wed her, fetches her for the marriage anticipating that she will be a stuck-up princess.

I recall that the term “pakhan” is used at least sometimes in this series to refer to the head honcho of these crime families.

xoxo thanks for help in advance