Lillian B. Rubin (1924–2014)

The Transcendent Child is about children, who by succeeding in life, were able to transcend or overcome their deprived and traumatic childhoods. The author, who herself was a transcendent child, has always wondered why she was able to overcome severe obstacles, but her brother could not. She asks why some, who fall down seven times are able to get up eight times? I don't believe Rubin's book answers the questions she poses, but it does present eight interesting stories of people who have overcome unbelievable handicaps to eventually lead successful lives. Selected Reading Questionnaire.… (altro)

This book looks at the problems and attitudes toward the elderly that are pervasive in our culture. I found that many of the observations reflected my uncomfortable feelings very well, unfortunately. I am in this demographic, being 66 now, and will be facing more and more of these problems in the years to come. The author did not suggest remedies to these issues and the book did not end on an upbeat note. However, the insights might be helpful to others in that one can recognize that they are not alone.… (altro)

this is my fourth read for the something about me challenge. i really enjoyed this book. lillian is a therapist. the first chapter she describes in depth the practice of therapy, what it's based on, what they teach, what they don't teach. she also describes what it was like once she officially had her license and had her first appointment. i was right there with her feeling her anxiety and trepidation and self-doubt. the following six chapters are separate accounts of specific patients. i really liked the way she described the journey she took with each one. you know how it started, where they went and how it ended. there was resolution and follow-up. i always want to know what happens after.

i really appreciated her struggles and her honesty. all in all it was a great book. if you want to know what it's like on the other side of the couch then this is a must-read.… (altro)