Marjorie Hillis (1889–1971)
Autore di Live Alone and Like It: The Classic Guide for the Single Woman
Sull'Autore
Opere di Marjorie Hillis
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Informazioni generali
- Altri nomi
- Roulston, Marjorie Hillis
Roulston, Marjorie H. - Data di nascita
- 1889
- Data di morte
- 1971
- Sesso
- female
- Nazionalità
- USA
- Nazione (per mappa)
- USA
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Recensioni
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Statistiche
- Opere
- 6
- Utenti
- 296
- Popolarità
- #79,168
- Voto
- 4.0
- Recensioni
- 10
- ISBN
- 20
- Lingue
- 4
It's enlightening to look at it within its social context: after the first world war, there was a lot of anxiety about the sudden imbalance between the male and female population. So many men had been killed in the war that many women would never have the chance to marry. Hence, the genesis of the "extra women," a phrase that I find wistful and sad. No one should feel like they are an unneeded surplus number. Of course, this book does a lot to encourage single women to enjoy their lives and not feel sorry for themselves.
Interestingly, republished copies of this book drop that phrase from the title and simply mention the "single woman."
Even though some parts of this book are heavily dated and others funny in an unintended way, I did enjoy the straight talk about how to not be pitiful, how to take control of your own social life and home atmosphere, and how to be a pleasant sort of person.
The funny bits were the parts where I learned that there are FOUR types of pajamas, and TWO of them are suitable for entertaining guests, or the parts that assume that you have access to a maid at least some of the time. Running a home and playing hostess have changed a bit since 1936! Though, to be fair, she was writing to people of a certain social class. I know that not everyone at that time had a maid.
Here are some tidbits I enjoyed for various reasons:
"Everybody feels sorry for herself (to say nothing of himself) now and then. But anyone who pities herself for more than a month on end is a weak sister and likely to become a public nuisance besides."
"You've got to have variety...Every woman should have a smattering of knowledge about practically everything...to listen well you must have at least a vague idea of what the other fellow is talking about...it is both boring and irritating for him to have to adapt his conversation so that you can understand it."
"Practically no one's morale can overcome an outfit that's all wrong."
"As we have already suggested, one of the great secrets of living alone successfully is not to live alone too constantly. A reasonably large circle of friends and enemies whom you can see when you want to, and will often see when you don't want to, is an important asset."
"You probably spend plenty of breakfasts, luncheons, evenings, Sundays, and holidays entertaining yourself. Are you really entertained? Anyone with any gumption can be. The first rule is to have several passionate interests...You should have at least one that keeps you busy at home and another that takes you out."
"Even if your aim is merely to reach an average as an amusing person, you'll need to keep at it....a few discriminating moments spent on the morning paper, a few varied and well-chosen magazines read thoroughly, at least one good book a week, and a reasonable amount of "getting around" should do the trick."
"The civilized place for any woman to have breakfast is in bed...Perhaps you stand on your feet all day in a none too impressive job--be an elegant lady of leisure just the same from, say, seven-forty-five to eight-fifteen. Even though nobody knows, you'll be more of a person the rest of the day." :)… (altro)