Ruth Fitzmaurice
Autore di I Found My Tribe
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Opere di Ruth Fitzmaurice
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PDCRead | 4 altre recensioni | Apr 6, 2020 | Well written. Little swimming involved. An ode to her dying husband suffering from MND and her mental well-being throughout.
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kenno82 | 4 altre recensioni | Sep 3, 2019 | I had previously started this book before my most recent health scare and hospitalization. People who have so much more on their plate than they know how to handle, how do they manage day to day. How do they work through all the muddles of life, and Ruth with young children and a husband who is suffering from Motor Neuron Disease, how does she cope? How does he? Always, I am looking for words of wisdom, even if one thing shines out from the dark, it is something to grasp, grab a hold of and work toward.
A very introspective read, as Ruth takes us back and forward, to the present in all it's messiness, sometimes hopelessness. Decisions she alone has to make, caretakers, nurses, aides, who invade their house, her relationship with her husband. She finds solace in the sea, swimming, it reaffirms her, helps her find her own tribe, those who love the sea, the wildness, the quietness, it's changing face. She makes the most, or tries to, of such moments, trying to invigorate her soul. She is full of love, full of angst, bitterness,all the many things one expects to feel in her situation. She, though, never stops trying, she has her children, a life of sorts, and it is this always striving but also the honesty in her thoughts, feelings that appealed. I think this is a book that will call! To certain people, maybe like myself when it is needed, a reminder that we are never perfect nor is the life we lead ever promised to be so, yet we can and do continue.
The storytelling reminded me of [book:M Train|24728470] by [author:Patti Smith|196092], which was a book I loved for the same reasons that I embraced this one. A woman trying to come to the best of their ability, to retain some sense of self against incredible odds.
ARC from Netgalley.… (altro)
A very introspective read, as Ruth takes us back and forward, to the present in all it's messiness, sometimes hopelessness. Decisions she alone has to make, caretakers, nurses, aides, who invade their house, her relationship with her husband. She finds solace in the sea, swimming, it reaffirms her, helps her find her own tribe, those who love the sea, the wildness, the quietness, it's changing face. She makes the most, or tries to, of such moments, trying to invigorate her soul. She is full of love, full of angst, bitterness,all the many things one expects to feel in her situation. She, though, never stops trying, she has her children, a life of sorts, and it is this always striving but also the honesty in her thoughts, feelings that appealed. I think this is a book that will call! To certain people, maybe like myself when it is needed, a reminder that we are never perfect nor is the life we lead ever promised to be so, yet we can and do continue.
The storytelling reminded me of [book:M Train|24728470] by [author:Patti Smith|196092], which was a book I loved for the same reasons that I embraced this one. A woman trying to come to the best of their ability, to retain some sense of self against incredible odds.
ARC from Netgalley.… (altro)
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Beamis12 | 4 altre recensioni | Feb 15, 2018 | A special thank you to NetGalley and Bloomsbury USA for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
This rambling, manic at times, narrative is a raw and honest book about living with MND (here in Canada known as ALS—amyotrophic lateral sclerosis—or Lou Gehrig's disease). Ruth Fitzmaurice's filmmaker husband, Simon, was diagnosed with motor neurone disease in 2008. He is wheelchair-bound, not able to move or breathe on his own, and can only communicate through the use of an eye gaze computer. It is these eyes that Ruth uses as the windows in which to find her husband—she knows he is still in there even though he can't speak to her, or touch her.
Ruth and Simon are parents to five children, all under the age of ten. As if that weren't chaos enough, there is a constant parade of nurses that come and go 24 hours a day, and a gaggle of pets including an aggressive basset hound. One of the many challenges Ruth faces is to find any sort of peace in the chaos, any moment of stillness and calm to keep her sane and grounded. She craves connections, whether it be to her "Tragic Wives' Swimming Club", or to her favourite nurse, Marian. Human connection is so important to survival, especially in times of tragedy.
Fitzmaurice doesn't use any type of timeline, or write in any kind of order. Instead, she chunks her staccato type narrative into mini essays. To be honest, it took me a while to get into her groove, there are times where she is all over the place and scattered and it feels like she has simply taken every thought in her head and put it on the page in order to make sense of her life. While this type of writing doesn't appeal to everyone, it works for this book. This memoir is raw, honest and heartbreaking, while at the same time showing the beauty of love. It inspires, and demonstrates the resilience of the human spirit. Ruth is unabashedly open with her thoughts and feelings and I think she is incredibly brave to bare her life in this way.… (altro)
½This rambling, manic at times, narrative is a raw and honest book about living with MND (here in Canada known as ALS—amyotrophic lateral sclerosis—or Lou Gehrig's disease). Ruth Fitzmaurice's filmmaker husband, Simon, was diagnosed with motor neurone disease in 2008. He is wheelchair-bound, not able to move or breathe on his own, and can only communicate through the use of an eye gaze computer. It is these eyes that Ruth uses as the windows in which to find her husband—she knows he is still in there even though he can't speak to her, or touch her.
Ruth and Simon are parents to five children, all under the age of ten. As if that weren't chaos enough, there is a constant parade of nurses that come and go 24 hours a day, and a gaggle of pets including an aggressive basset hound. One of the many challenges Ruth faces is to find any sort of peace in the chaos, any moment of stillness and calm to keep her sane and grounded. She craves connections, whether it be to her "Tragic Wives' Swimming Club", or to her favourite nurse, Marian. Human connection is so important to survival, especially in times of tragedy.
Fitzmaurice doesn't use any type of timeline, or write in any kind of order. Instead, she chunks her staccato type narrative into mini essays. To be honest, it took me a while to get into her groove, there are times where she is all over the place and scattered and it feels like she has simply taken every thought in her head and put it on the page in order to make sense of her life. While this type of writing doesn't appeal to everyone, it works for this book. This memoir is raw, honest and heartbreaking, while at the same time showing the beauty of love. It inspires, and demonstrates the resilience of the human spirit. Ruth is unabashedly open with her thoughts and feelings and I think she is incredibly brave to bare her life in this way.… (altro)
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GirlWellRead | 4 altre recensioni | Dec 30, 2017 | Premi e riconoscimenti
Statistiche
- Opere
- 2
- Utenti
- 61
- Popolarità
- #274,234
- Voto
- 4.0
- Recensioni
- 5
- ISBN
- 9
Even in the most tragic of circumstances, she can see hope, even though she has periods of time where she feels raw and vulnerable. Ruth has a roller coaster of emotions living with Simon and his motor neurone disease. It is tough, but not as tough as the moments when she has to answer the children’s questions as what is happening with Dad, especially when she doesn’t have the answers. The sea swimming becomes those moments when she can be herself and relax with her friends. Her beautiful, sparse prose gets to the very essence of what is happening with the various tribes. It is a moving book too, with several poignant moments. She is one tough lady. 3.5 stars… (altro)