Debbie Corso

Very incomplete book. It focuses too much on the borderlines 'flaws' or 'misconceptions', but does not address at all, that many times borderlines have people in their lives who are so emotionally unavailable, unreliable, use us for sex, money, etc, abusive, etc that our reactions can be over the top due to being treated badly and our reactions are not quite so 'unstable' as if we were dealing with someone who is fairly rational and consistent but once in a while is human and just makes a mistake. Two totally different types of people. She makes no mention at all at what borderlines can do to chose our company more wisely to reduce the anger and bitterness of not being treated well and creating 'drama', or how to get out of unhealthy relationships that make our syntoms continue or made worse.… (altro)