Hilary Boyd
Autore di I nostri giovedì al parco
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Hilary Boyd is a writer who has trained as a registered nurse and marriage counseior.
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- Opere
- 25
- Utenti
- 386
- Popolarità
- #62,660
- Voto
- 3.4
- Recensioni
- 14
- ISBN
- 133
- Lingue
- 9
Some things were annoying. George is an insufferable husband, controlling and potentially nasty. Still Jeannie stays with him and consistently beats herself up for not enjoying living with a man who questions her every movement in a truly awful manner and who withdraws physical contact without any explanation. She also finds reasons to like her self-obsessed and wastrel son-in-law, taking abuse and maligning of her character with only more self-blame.
I’ve met some people ‘of that certain age’ who still take pride in sticking with obnoxious men because they were married to them, but I can’t find positives in this particular set of manipulative relationships. It seems a bad example, and Jeannie is in danger of being martyred through her endless bowing to command. I wanted to have a firm talking to with her, but in truth, she was unbelievable, and thus didn’t cause anything but irritation. I believe the author wanted to make her seem a positive example but she becomes tiresome. Sure, bad on her to fall in love with someone else while married, but double bad on her to allow things to get to this pass. The endless grovelling is annoying.
I found the character of Rita well-drawn- she, as friend and confidant to the main character, acts as confidants often do- providing support and conflicting advice in equal measure. She adds accelerant to the marriage breakdown until it seems to be actually occurring, then changes direction and gets her own cold feet.
Age is a constant in this book- the main character turns 60 and is constantly being called old- most annoying to this 61-year-old reader- I could identify! A part of my non-calcified heart longs for a lovely fellah to wander into my life and make me feel lust again- so we like radiant Ray (who is given some small faults but is really just SUCH A GOOD GUY that we are forced to like him - heck, he’s even good in bed, without any discussion of the omnipresent hydraulic problems in this age group!). ‘Things’ just magically happen. Made me laugh. Of course, he IS fit from doing martial arts, so he of course has no troublesome chronic diseases. (Despite some rough years, with alcoholism rampant). Ah well, hopes, and apparently other things, spring eternal.
Jeannie also is fit and unconcerned about intimate issues- despite 10 years without intimate contact, she is able to spring in with aplomb. Well, after miles of self-flagellation about even thinking about s-e-x. She doesn’t demand utter darkness for their first interlude, or feel at all awkward. Again, stretches believability, but this is romantic fantasy, after all.
At least it isn’t capitalism-porn, where what people own plays the central role. The author keeps her characters front and centre, with the environment in muted colours around them.
The story is well written, with just enough tragedy to keep interest high. Quite enjoyable and worth a read, as long as you don’t see in Jeannie an example of how one should live with a controlling man. (Or partner)… (altro)