Lisa Marie Basile

One of the most important facts about this book is stated in the introduction, this book is not about magic and witchcraft, this book is about self-care. And that is exactly what it is. There are rituals to ground you, rituals to promote self-love, to get comfortable with the idea of loss or even death, to make time for yourself, for your self-care, ...

It seems like there is a ritual for nearly every negative moment in your life. This book shall help you to focus your energy onto yourself or people you care about.

By ritual, the author does not necessarily mean hours of preparation, drawing a magic circle, calling the elements, using thousands of strange herbal ingredients, anointed candles and so on. You can do that, but most of the rituals include a few household ingredients every woman has at home, or none at all. The rituals are easy to follow and all of them are supposed to make you feel better, be a better person, to empower you in yourself.… (altro)

One of my favorite anthologies I�Ûªve read in a while. Deeply cathartic, sometimes emotionally devastating stories written in a great mix of styles and genres. Some faithfully referenced the poetry and biographical details of Sylvia Plath, others delved into the lyrics and moods of Lana Del Rey‰Ûªs music, and some forged their own paths. The best of them combined all of these elements into a synthesis greater than the sum of its parts. All of the stories were good, many were great. Tragedy Queens gets a strong recommendation from me… (altro)

I put two bare feet up on the dash and spread myself
but he is a boulder,
smells of salt, has a chest that could possess
me, or other nightmares

Lisa Marie Basile’s Apocryphal exists in that Nabokovian twilight between childhood and adulthood. Between these realms one confronts monsters and the monolithic oppression of tradition. This is Alice in Wonderland re-imagined as a harrowing nightmare journey, a poodle-skirted damsel thrown into the jaws of a slavering beast, who may be the speaker’s father. What remains are fragments, memories, and fantasies strewn about or reconfigured.

When reading the book’s sticky sensual passages, the slow realization occurs that these prurient shards point to something more sinister than adolescent sex and appeasing those base cravings.

I notice: the other children do not live this way
but then again they do not enjoy
getting fucked either,
& this, I do.

I would learn to devour everything,
mollusk & man,
become obsessively pregnant with you,
I mean: become those women staring,

& I would abort you.

Apocryphal is divided into three parts: “genesis,” “apocryphal,” and “paradise.” It is equal parts visionary and horrific. Childhood nostalgia turns into body horror. Everything curdles into corruption and family secrets.
Then the speaker meets Javi:

when I meet Javi again he is the worm in my mezcal. once a constellation, once a man who bore a flag of kings, a crown of thorns & power suit, oh my god the forearms

While Apocryphal is a critique of traditional male masculinity, it is not beyond denying the urges – those primordial needs – and a celebration of those urges. It is a contradiction—a friction—that creates heat and light. Slowly, slowly, more details emerge: a Cold War childhood in a Mexican-American community (?), references to mantillas, and to Javi as “the worm in my mezcal.” But things aren’t exactly clear, like stitching together a narrative from found footage and random newspaper clippings. The book is simultaneously dream and pastiche: half-remembered events and the glaucous haze of nostalgia. Everything about the speaker is fabricated.

I could take off my wig and rub off my
sheen, become real, the bodytrophy underneath all this
victimized shimmer.
but I don’t own my own sexuality:
it is borrowed from somewhere bad, a beach side-show of
bouffant & glitter, two breasts propped up behind a taupe changing curtain

But things are more complicated than that. Basile thanks her parents in the Acknowledgments. “& thank you to my family, who I sincerely ask to not read this book. Please. I have borrowed and sculpted lives in order to write this, & I feel bad about it. You are beautiful, mom.” Despite its avant-garde exterior, Apocryphal enacts the ancient tradition of poets adopting masks, personae. At first blush, I felt betrayed by its confessions. But not every book requires a finely wrought personal exorcism of childhood trauma and sexual abuse. So long as the word “memoir” isn’t in the title, a poet or novelist is free to warp and deform their own personal experiences into something fictional. Basile might have had a traumatic childhood, since that is more common than one would expect or be conned into believing. (The patriarchal mythologizing of Leave It to Beaver down to The Partridge Family would make one think that growing up white and in the suburbs involved only trivial problems and a canned laugh track. But only the fanatically credulous believe these TV shows bear any resemblance to actual lives or historical evidence.)

“everyone I love is recast as father, as murderer, a reconstruction, a deconstruction, an abuse-of, a haunting, a polaroid.”

Apocryphal is all these things. Basile’s narrator attempts to exorcise memories, but she remains tainted, both in mind and body. In “paradise” she says “it hurts to speak but it must be done.” “I don’t respect these monsters but I weep anyway,” she thinks, “with bubblegum/popping through my black veil.”

Sea images return, only this return is more monstrous, a demonic reincarnation, the lasting legacy of abuse:

tiding in,
the lure of the long stem
tiding in,

the victim
is never the victim,

the victim
is a new monster,
tiding in.

Apocryphal is a haunting meditation on the violence perpetrated against women by those who should know better. Not simply fathers, but the father-worship of our many institutions: government, organized religion, corporations. Basile’s speaker gives us a privileged look inside a damaged and wounded soul: someone who wants revenge, the sweet satisfaction of parricide, but also cannot eradicate the cloying sticky shame that clings to her every surface. Those beach side trysts yielded illicit pleasures, but they also contributed to creating a monster, tiding in and preparing to strike.

http://www.thethepoetry.com/2014/10/the-dolorous-haze-of-apocrypha-apocryphal-by...… (altro)