Carrie Kills A Man is about growing up in a world that doesnt want you, and about how it feels to throw a hand grenade into a perfect life. Its the story of how a tattooed transgender rock singer killed a depressed suburban dad, and of the lessons you learn when you renounce all your privilege and power. When more people think theyve seen a ghost than met a trans person, its easy for bad actors to exploit that - and they do, as you can see from the headlines and online. But heres the reality, from someone whos living it. From coming out and navigating trans parenthood to the thrills of gender-bending pop stars, fashion disasters and looking like Velma Dinkley, this is a tale of ripping it up and starting again.